why do I always miss these things?

[ratcreature]

So apparently there was (is?) some sort of kink meme kerfuffle going on in SGA fandom? I until today I didn't even know that SGA had any kink meme, and now there are two? Could someone link me to posts explaining what was going on?

Comments

[droolfangrrl.livejournal.com]

Hm... have we white woman's tears yet?

[madripoor-rose.livejournal.com]

Probably. I stopped reading the comments after the third failure to understand that though it can be used hatefully, that is the commonly used name of the particular kink. And that...stopping someone from writing a heavyset character having sex with a fandom hottie because of *terminology* is fat-acceptance-fail in itself.